blackmagixhoe:

woodland-faeries:

ericfvckingharris:

Growing up in an abusive household is a fucking trip dude……If you’ve never had someone angrily wash a dish at you or fold a sock in your direction then how are you gonna understand why I get nervous when you quietly do the laundry, or why I ask “are you mad at me?” when you set the bag of groceries down too hard? It’s a totally different way of living and it impacts you long after you’ve left the situation.

This is so fucking relevant.

Omg I can tell I overdo it some times but I can’t help it one time my boyfriend woke up and breathed. And I instantly woke up and I was like “babe r u mad at me I’m sorry” and he was like ??? I woke up to pee. And another time my bf was putting stuff in the washer and dryer and he closed the door and it was loud and he comes back and I’m like “were u mad about how many clothes I had in sorry” and he was like ????